The Backdoor Podcast

The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities.

Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says.

Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor.

NEW episodes Monday & Thusdays.

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Episodes

7 days ago

You commented… so we responded. 👀😂
In this episode, we dive into our hate comments—the good, the bad, and the downright unhinged. Episode 17 is all about clearing the air, roasting ourselves a little, and having fun with the internet’s loudest opinions.
 
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Thursday Dec 18, 2025

In this episode, we’re taking you all the way back — how we started on TikTok, what really helped us blow up, and the unexpected journey that led to our viral “Exposing” series. From awkward first posts to hitting the For You Page, we break down the highs, the lows, and the moment we realized people love hearing the juicy secrets guys and girls are hiding. 👀
 
We’re also answering some of your biggest questions:
What made us start exposing people?
Did anyone ever get mad? 👀
And what’s next for the series?
 
If you’ve ever wanted the uncut story behind our TikTok glow-up and how we built our brand around raw honesty, secrets, and a little bit of chaos… this episode is for you.
 
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Monday Dec 15, 2025

Why Toys Belong in the Bedroom. Breaking the stigma, especially in long-term relationships. Let’s talk about something that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly: sex toys. And more importantly, why they absolutely belong in the bedroom, especially for couples in long-term relationships.
 
🧠The BZZZZ Theory The stronger the vibe, the better the connection. It’s simple. When partners explore new ways to experience pleasure, it deepens intimacy, communication, and trust. Toys don’t replace your partner — they amplify what’s already there. They introduce curiosity, play, and fun — things every relationship can use more of, especially over time.
 
❌Real Talk: Men Feeling Intimidated
 
Let’s squash this outdated mindset. Some men worry toys are “competition.” But that thinking is stuck in the past. A toy is a tool, not a threat. It’s not about performance — it’s about partnership. When men embrace toys as part of a shared experience, it opens the door to more pleasure for both partners, and a stronger emotional bond.
 
Especially for Long-Term Couples Over time, routines settle in.
 
Life gets busy. That first-fire passion? It’s still there — it just needs a spark. Toys are one of the easiest and most effective ways to reignite that connection. It’s not about fixing something that’s broken — it’s about evolving together.
 
Bottom Line: Toys aren’t taboo — they’re a bridge to better communication, deeper pleasure, and lasting connection. Whether you’ve been together for 5 years or 25, it’s time to stop seeing toys as “extra” and start seeing them as essential. Because when the vibe is strong, so is the relationship.🔥
 
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Thursday Dec 11, 2025

Lets talk about being intimate... In todays podcast we dive into how we separate our intimate time and how we prioritize being intimate not only for the camera! We answer questions about wether or not we record things for ourselves that we NEVER share and talk about how long it took us to get comfortable on camera in every type of way.
 
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Monday Dec 08, 2025

Real talk on budgeting, saving and investing as influencers, content and adult creators - especially with a baby now in the picture. Do you talk about money with your partner? How do you split things? Let's break it down.
 
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Thursday Dec 04, 2025

Steph crashes out on this episode👀 Today's episode is a deep dive into digital legacy, future conversations and how we plan to navigate explaining our jobs to our kid/s one day.
 
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Monday Dec 01, 2025

Have you ever thought about why family vlogs are bad? Join us as we dive into the ethics, the money and the madness behind family influencers, child content creators and "kidfluencers." Hear our take as adult content creators as we explore how kids are often exploited in the name of "Family Vlogs" or viral fame because there are many family vlogging problems.
 
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Thursday Nov 27, 2025

You've heard about the honeymoon phase but what happens after that? In this episode, we're getting real about how the "spicy bedroom time" changes in long term relationships. Spoiler, it's not always spontaneous kitchen-counter action. From unmatched libidos to "not tonight, I'm tired.... again" We laugh and get honest about keeping the spark alive when life keeps throwing laundry, kids and work stress in your bed. Literally.
 
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Monday Nov 24, 2025

In this episode, we’re diving into the juicy, unfiltered questions we get asked as influencers—no topic is off-limits. From controversial opinions to the dirty secrets behind the glitz and glam of social media, we’re answering the questions you’ve always wanted to know but were too afraid to ask. Brace yourselves for some honest truths, shocking confessions, and maybe a few laughs along the way! Tune in for a real conversation about the highs and lows of the influencer world.
 
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Thursday Nov 20, 2025

What would you do if you found out your friends were secretly subscribed to your OnlyFans? In this episode, we dive into the awkward, hilarious, and maybe even flattering reactions to discovering familiar faces in your subscriber list. Plus, we explore the world of role-playing in relationships- how it can spice things up, break routine, and bring partners closer. From unexpected OF drama to stepping into new personas in the bedroom, this episode is all about navigating the unexpected in modern relationships.
 
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